Why Being Single Isn't an Issue — Marina Pearson

BEING SINGLE ISN'T AN ISSUE…

Last month I was having a conversation with a dear friend. And it was around how my message doesn't all quite do it for her. And so I was curious as to why not. And she shared that what she felt was coming through was that

“Let's unshackle you from your conditioning, so you can be in a better romantic relationship.”

“And?” I asked.

“Well, your message suggests that it's not okay to be single and that your only reason for healing IS because you now want to go into another relationship. Is that not suggesting that if you choose to be single that there IS something wrong with you?” She answered.

The Misconception of Singleness and Self-Healing

And so I wanted to speak to that and express what my Point of View is on this.

I believe that what's most important IS to understand where you are making any of these decisions from.

I don't know who needs to hear this, but please know that

There is nothing wrong with being single and there IS nothing wrong with you if you are.

After all, were we not born alone? Beautifully, magnificently, magically?

Of course we were.

You are a sovereign being.

You don't need anyone to complete you or make them be your source of self-esteem.

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The Joy of Being Single

Choosing to be single is as significant and meaningful as choosing to be in a relationship. This choice empowers individuals to define their happiness and fulfillment on their terms. It challenges societal norms that often equate being in a relationship with success and happiness. By recognizing this power of choice, one affirms the validity and value of their life path, regardless of relationship status.

Understanding Your Choices: The Importance of Self-Reflection

And yet, like with anything in Life, checking in with yourself to understand where your decision comes from can give you the clarity to choose into something else, if that's what you want.

🙏You may be single as a way to protect yourself from being hurt. So you decide you want to be single and say *I am fine on my own.*

🙏You may be single and happy because you know that's what IS aligned for you.

🙏You may be single and miserable and keep looking out there for *the Guy* to complete or save you.

🙏You may be single and happy and still want the experience of being in a partnership with someone. It's okay to desire this for yourself and it's your birthright to have what you want.

You may experience all of these from time to time...🙈♥️🔥

Celebrating Singleness and Beyond

My deep desire for all my women is that whatever they choose into, they do so from their Unshackled Truth and Desire.

Celebrating singleness also means celebrating self-love and independence. It's recognizing that you are whole and complete as you are, capable of giving yourself the love, respect, and attention you might seek from others. This self-love is the foundation for all types of relationships in your life, offering a wellspring of confidence and inner peace that radiates outward.